The Mask That Makes Us Honest? PDF Print E-mail
Written by Michael R. Walker   
Tuesday, 22 April 2008 00:00
I just read an interesting article on MSNBC, about video game addictions. What gets people addicted to these things so much that we've heard stories about neglected children, destroyed marriages, and even death by self-neglect - seriously, read the article - for the sake of the game world?

The article is likely right in pointing to the appeal of the "social" nature of many of these games, such as World of Warcraft. And it tells of one married couple where the man loved gaming, but his wife felt neglected. Desperate to save the marriage, she agreed to start playing the game with him. Eventually, they went their separate ways in the game, since she couldn't keep up. But she found other friends in the game and plays it all the time. Asked about the allure of the virtual world, here's how she replied: "People in the game are a lot more genuine then they are in real life,” she says. “Being hidden behind this mask of your character, you’re able to be a little more open and honest with people because they don’t know who you are."

You can probably guess what I'm going to say about this heart breaking sentiment. Set aside for a moment the fact that she entered this "other world" to be with her husband but is now on her own separate voyage in that world with others she feels accept her and care for her (they give her "gold" to use in the game, for instance). I don't want to sound like a typical basher of "virtual communities" - I'm a Facebook devoté. But it does say something about the harshness of our human communities (or even our marriages) when many find that, in order to be "a little more open and honest with people," we must don the mask. Note the deep irony in this woman's words. She's being honest - true to herself, saying what she really thinks, etc. - when she's "hidden behind this mask." In other words, in order to be herself, she must be someone else. In order to be present as our self, we must not be present to ourselves. (This kind of thing is unfortunately common in marital affairs, too, where often we embrace self-alienation as a means of self-expression - step out of our own lives in order to get what we think we really want.) It's a tortuous cycle.

Pascal once said, "Human beings must be known to be loved." And yet our frail and disordered condition tells us that to be loved, we must not be known. And there is plenty in our own experience of life to lead us to this conclusion: when we give ourselves to be known, love is not often what we receive in return. So we do not give ourselves and are not known, and are therefore unloved.

As a Christian, I do believe that God in Jesus Christ is the only one who both knows us completely and loves us unconditionally. And the simple call to love others as we have been loved by God should be seen as a radical way of life that undercuts the self-alienation that plunges the human self into an empty abyss. It's a call to stop the tortuous cycle, in our own lives and for the lives of others. When others let themselves be known, we are called to offer them in return the love that we have received. And we can give ourselves to be known, because the security of our own souls is not hanging in the balance, waiting for acceptance in return. We have already received it and with it can overcome any this-worldly rejection.

So, the article convicted me. Too often you'd be fair to characterize me the way the woman in the article characterizes our society. Hopefully without sounding trite, it's safe to say that the more Christians embrace the simple but profound call to mutual self-giving, the fewer hearts we'll leave to search for acceptance in a different world.

 

The Notebook

Ecclesiology and the Cartesian Turn
Janos Pasztor offers a packed summary of some of the ecclesiological consequences of the so-called "Cartesian turn" - the rise of the anthropological starting point -- and often endpoint -- in the pursuit of knowledge that became dominant among philosophers in the 18th century and has characterize "Modern" thought):

"Theology itself was very considerably influenced by this development. It was a 180-degree turn: it began losing its theocentric character and became more and more anthropocentric. For these kinds of theologies it was not God who would come to man addressing him in his life-giving Word, but man would make attempts to approach God by means of an intellectual enterprise. A late twentieth-century representative of this trend of thought says: 'God is the object of my consciousness which I perceive in so far as I perceive something, that is I allot him a place within the framework of a sign-system, in order to be able to talk to others about this matter.'  Consequently, the church is the people, who, by virtue of having accepted the common sign-system, are seeking common answers to the meaning of existence.

"These trends of thought, however respectable they might have been otherwise, have rejected most of the things the Reformers stood for.  The divine Logos, the eternal Son, 'true God from true God, begotten not made, of one Being with the Father,' became the Logos of the philosophers, a principle and idea, or a set of thoughts. As Blaise Pascal put it, here one has to deal with the God of the philosophers instead of the God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and Jesus Christ. Instead of listening obedience to the Word of God, one meets the rule of reason in rationalism; instead of the freedom of God's liberated children, one gets the freedom of the individual thinker in liberailsm. These ideas had a devastating effect on the field of Christology. They brought about what has been termed by Hungarian theologians, a Unitarian theology in everything but name."

"...the church is nothing but one of the many human organizations dealing with issues like religion and morals."

"....For people with that kind of idea, catholicity meant 'as opposed to confessional catholicity...the universal kingdom of spirit, but something other than the Holy Spirit,' if it meant anything at all."

Janos Pasztor, "The Catholicity of Reformed Theology," Toward the Future of Reformed Theology (Eerdmans, 1999), p. 29.

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